This is how this is gonna go.

I’m going to bed.

I’ve Tumblr Savior’d Siwon, and he’s gonna stay that way indefinitely.

JUST TO GIVE YA’LL A HEADS UP:

Queerphobic statements and actions hit me really hard. They’re not a trigger, but they bother me a lot. Seeing that gifset on its own made my already bad day (and not even just generally bad, but hey let’s make fun of minorities at work and attempt to use false logic to explain why it’s okay bad) a little worse. Seeing it alongside laughter, and assent made it seem almost unbearable in hindsight. My chest is really sore, I’ve stopped crying but I mean my face is all stingy because my skin is sensitive, and this is really embarrassing, but I stay too quiet too often and I shouldn’t have to ya’ll are my friends.

This stuff isn’t cute; it isn’t okay.

You need to tag anti-queer sentiments accordingly. If you’re unsure, tag it anyways. When you decide what kind of tagging system you’re going to use, let me know so I can plug it in to Tumblr Savior.

I don’t care if you stan idols who say, or do crappy things. Just tag it so I don’t have to stan them with you.

So to close this off, here’s my favourite gif of Nino and Ohno together because Arashi always seems to make me smile when I’m down.

A little guide for those who stan people who have fucked up

yukaristea:

• DO NOT make excuses for them
• DO NOT ignore the problem
• DO NOT lash out angrily at people who call said person out
• DO NOT tell people to stop being offended and calm down
• DO NOT say ‘they didn’t mean it’
• DO NOT say ‘it’s their culture!!11 they don’t know any better’

If they didn’t mean it they wouldn’t have done it. And granted, if they didn’t know any better than it’s about fucking time you start educating them. Tell them, and ignorant ignoring fans, why it’s wrong and offensive. 

No one ever said you can’t stan someone who hasn’t fucked up. Just always know that they did. 

Give me a kpop idol and I will answer:

• Why I like them
• Why I don’t
• Favorite era
• OTP
• Unpopular opinion
• A wish
• An oh-god-please-dont-ever-happen
• 5 words to best describe them
• My nickname for them

wanna-b:

minsminsmins:

kpopsecrets:

I dreamt that I died. And in my dream, when K-pop fans die, they go to a place called the Seoul Train, where they dance to K-pop forever. But just as I had stepped on the train, JYP showed up, dressed in his pajamas from the Wonder Girls movie. He grabbed my hand and told me that that it wasn’t time yet for me to “shake what my umma gave me.” Then he pulled me off the train and I woke up.

s!b: The whole “K-pop fans dance to K-Pop forever when they die” makes it sound like K-pop is my religion. :/

this is the greatest secret ever posted

So I’m looking for some English-language K-Pop to put on a CD for my Mum.

Anyone wanna help a bro out?

noonaneomuhomo:

jinkerbell:

890616:

kissabilitee:

The constant fear that your bias might do something shitty at some point.

yeah I worry about this a lot actually haha. D: I’d be p devastated.

ship bad boys, pray for onews

#the day onew fucks up is the day i walk

from kpop fandom and humanity tbh

Message me a number ~

1. Who my first ever k-pop bias was. 
2. My first k-pop music video.
3. Favourite k-pop girl group.
4. Favourite k-pop boy group.
5. K-pop Idol who I’d like to be my brother/sister. 
6. Favourite k-pop label. 
7. The last k-drama I watched. 
8. The music I listen to other than k-pop. 
9. Couple I want to see on we got married. 
10. Favourite Korean actor. 
11. How many Korean albums I have. 
12. How long I’ve been listening to k-pop.
13. I’ll tell you a random Korean artist I like.